Thicker than Water….

February 24, 2011 my half-sister Christie will be sixty years old. I have searched for Christie for thirty five years. I had done years of genealogy searches with my Grandma Opal Towers. I have traced my family all the way back to Ireland and England. But, I could not find Christie.
I always felt like I was missing something in my life. I had watched others with a sister, with envy. I did not know the details about Christie until I was 21 years old.
My dad and his high school girlfriend had a baby girl. February 24, 1951.
The day I found out about her….I promised myself I would find her someday. I have searched birth, marriage, death, adoption records. I have contacted complete strangers with her birth mom’s last name.

My grandmother had given me a picture of her mom….with the last names on the back. My grandmother had a stroke and with a whisper she gave me Christie’s adopted last name. I always worried that perhaps I had heard an incorrect name. These were the only items that I had to find her. Maybe I would never find her. Maybe she would never know that my family never forgot about her.

In January 2011, as I was working at my desk, I put in the names for a search on Google. I have done this hundreds of times over the years. However, this time….up popped a sweet article on her uncle who had passed away at the age of 86. There it was…. For the first time, I had all the names I had searched for…..for thirty five years.
I wrote a letter and shared my story with an address that I had googled as well. I was not sure if I would ever hear back from her. Christie wrote back to me and we are beginning to share our lives with each other. We have so much in common.

With technology and when the time was right, a miracle happened. I have felt some sadness and I was sorry for the time that we lost in each other’s lives. Christie, reminded me that we have NOW…..we have today and the rest of our lives.

Happy Birthday Christie. You are my gift. And I am so thankful that I have found you.

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2 responses to “Thicker than Water….

  1. Sarah Sullivan

    This is an amazing story, Julie. Life truly is inexplicable, isn’t it? I’m so happy you found your sister.

  2. milo Cushman

    Hi Julie, I felt there was something very special about you. I have read your stories and found them warm and full of truth. I am glad we are friends and I feel good about that.

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